Online dating is perhaps the safest way to meet individuals right now. You are assured of remaining anonymous until you feel you are ready to make the next step. However there are some do's and don'ts to online dating you should follow:

Never give your phone number to someone you have just met for the first time. Give it a couple of weeks, or even a month, to be able to judge that person's honesty and character.

You do have to talk with the individual before meeting them in a public place. The voice even on the phone can lead you to clues as to whether they are trust worthy. Starbuck's would be a good meeting place.

It's important to meet in a public place. Never have your date pick you up or follow you home after your first date.

Generally everyone is trying to find Mr. or Miss Right. Even though we don't like to think about the dangers of predators in online dating, some trouble does exist. This means that you have to be careful but don't think that everyone is a predator. Just make sure that when you order a drink, keep your eyes on it at all times.

Be open and honest with the person you are speaking with. Some things about yourself probably should not be shared right away, but you can explain why honestly instead of ducking the question.

Maintain honesty when writing a profile. One ought to post an up to date photo, an accurate self-portrayal, and should be truthful in relating their view of themselves.

It is imperative that you save yourself some trouble and take things slow. Take the time to learn about each other and move slowly. By doing things this way you may find that you will grow closer and closer to each other. On the other hand, you may find that you are two very different people and that you do not belong together. It is nice to find this out before things have gone too far.